Insaan do tareekon sy seekhta (learn) hai.
1. Tajarbaat (Experiences)
2. Mushahidaat (Observation)
Jo insaan experiences sy seekhta hai wo bahut kuch seekhta hai kyunki wo tajurbaat uski zindagi ka nichor aur khulaasa hoty hain magar is seekhny main wo bahut kuch khota hai tab ja ker uski seekh kaam ati hai.
The person who learn through Observation, get everything without losing anything. Because he learns from his teachers, parents, friends and relatives, road walkers, books etc,,
Example: Suppose there are two boys. No 1 and no.2... The parents of number one’s boy say “beta one wheel cycling can become the cause of accident so please avoid not to do that act on road”. At first to wo suny ga aur dusry kaan sy nikal dy ga… ab wo raasty main aik accident dekhta hai jo k one wheel cycling ki waja sy hua to wo Allah ka shukar karta hai k abhi tak he didn’t do that yet. Kia dusry larky ko advice nahi ki ho gi usky parents nay? Of course yes ki ho gi but he wants to have an experience and no doubt want to be expert and consequence it becomes the reason to injure him as well as the other boy learns from him condition without hurting himself.
Result: Boy no 1 learns from Observation without losing anything (here losing mean that he didn’t injure himself) and got the point of his parents and the second one from Experience (which he app lied to do that stunt and hurt himself but also learn that his parents were right). Both dig the advice up of their parents but their learning process was different.
These two means play an important role in our lives. We can learn from experiment from ourselves which is painful but there is a little bit satisfaction that yes we are able to do this & that. We can learn from scrutiny like parents, teachers, friends, relatives and road walkers, books (study books, books Quran Pak). Our teachers and the other ways as mentioned above help us out because their lives are full of bitter experiments & their experiences teach us accurately. A man is practically doing the stunt or whatever and become the victim of an unpleasant incident, on the other hand observer forbade himself by seeing that confrontation. In fact we learn a lot by adopting observational method because we have 100/99 (ninety nine out of hundred) options to learn but in experimental way we have 100/0.5 (point five out of hundred) because here it’s completely depend on us whether we do it at first attempt or take time to be an expert or maybe it will remain incomplete…
Indian actor Amitabh Bachan nay apny aik interview (Sunday Magzine) main kaha tha k “I want to learn from the guys around me because I have done everything in my life that was full of risks ohh now I m not ready to take any risk at this time (with huge smile)”.
Whatever the method is but mehnat, laggan aur koshish ho to insaan seekhny ki aakhri hadd tak paar kar jata hai aur har fan maula na sahi magar us cheez main expert zarur ban jata hai jis main us nay din raat aik kia ho because man can’t be perfect in even one thing.
Aur let me define one thing to all of you that Experience and Observation are totally different from each other. It doesn’t mean that aadmi agar experience karta hay to haarta hai ya kamm hasil karta hai because men can be taught from both ways but condition & learning process would be differ. It is said by people that the best way of learning is surveillance rather than incident or practices because here we have a lot of chances to learn or to have. And my opinion is not different from their views because I too prefer scrutiny. Everyone has his own ideas and thinking but do you agree with me that ‘Observational’ way is the finest way to discover something? If yes, thanks and if not then also thanks to read this article patiently :-)
Always keep Smiling
Allah blesses you all.
Aamin
Zara
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