السلام علیکم ورحمۃ اللہ وبرکاتہ
سسٹر آسیہ زوہیب (اللہ پاک اُسے جلد از جلد صحت کاملہ عاجلہ نصیب فرمائے) کا ایک اور ہنستا مسکراتا عین حالات کے مطابق تھریڈ۔۔
" Examination phobia"
jaisa keh hum sab jantay hain kah humaray forum k bohat se members aaj kal gair hazir dikhai dete hain,,,aur aik signature chor jatay hain...
busy in exams
iss liye socha kah kuch tips de doon inn members hazraat ko,,,chalo Allah bhala hi kere ga
waise tou mahreen-e-nafsiyaat k kahnay k mutabiq insaan ko bohat se khoof aur bemariyan laahaq hoti hain jin ki wajha se insaan ki zindagi ajeeran ho jati hai, masslan (for example) bad soorti ka khof [kyon k shahzad bhaiya kahtay hain k agr aap khoob surat dikhai dete hain toi aaina jhooth bolta hai
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nakami ka khoof, ehsas-e-bartri aur burhapay ka khoof ....
lekin aaj hum aik naye aur mohlik khof ya aap isse bemari kah lain tou zyada behtar ho ga,,
iss pe behas kerain ge,,,,[ i wish k ye topic Dil- Shah likhtay kyon k wo achi khasi behas kr lete hain
] (juz kidding )g tou iss bemari ko talib-e-elm "examination phobia" ka naam dete hain aur ye bemari khas un hi ki wajha se wajood kainaat ka hissa bani aur wo samjhtay hain k exams koi unnecessary blla(monster) hai,,aur sardi ki raton mein b passeenay mein sharaboor uthay hain,,,mamma g pochti hai beta kya hua kehtay hain "mamma g ik bora sapna dekha main examination hall mein tha aur mujhe paper nahi ata tha
chalain g sab se pehlay hum iss ki alaamat(symptoms) byaan fermatay hain .....
iss k asraat emtehaan ki date sheet muqqrar hone k sath hi shoroh ho jatay hain aur emtehaan k ikhtataam tak chaye rahtay hain. iss doran talib-e-elm ki halat bohat qabil-e-raham hoti hai.iss pe mayosi k badal chaye rahtay hain aur wo bohat zyada tanhai pasand ho jata hai.baat baat pe iss ka dil ghabranay lagta hai aur khas tor pe kitabon ko dekh kr isse hol uthtay thay, ser chakranay lagta hai, inn dino mareez neend awar goliyan kasrat se istamaal kerte hain aur aik aur bohat zaroori baat kah wo kasrat se chaye, coffee aur kehwa nosh fermatay hain, inn sab baton k elawa sab se qabil-e-zikar aur khatrnaak alaamat yeh mushahiday mein ati hai kah inn dino mareez bohat chirchara ho jata hai aur aksar apne saathi mareezon kay sath baith ker professor sahibaan ko apni iss halat ka morad alzaam tahraata hai kah wo papers bohat mushkl banatay hain bulkah out of syllabus banatay hain
khud ko alama samjhne lagta hai aur apna peechla sunehri dour yaad kerta hai...jaisa k aksar talib-e-elm hazraat fermatay hain kah 80% paper ka inhasaar os lecture pe hota hai jo un se miss ho jata hai ya wo kitaab jo unhain kabhi perhai hi nahi gai
aur mostly tali-e-elm ye b uzr paish kerte hain k unhain pata nahi chala un ka english ka paper tha aur wo urdu ki tyari mein masroof thy
chalin g ab dekhtay hain k iss bemaari ka koi elaaj b hai ya nahi
kyon k iss mouzi aur mutaeddi bemaari ka elaaj kerna bohat zarori hai agr zyada arsa tak ye beemari lahaq rahy tou bohat se noqsaanat ka baes banti hai.....
sab se pehlay tou temadaar ko chaiye k wo mareez ko nisaab k paas b na phatakanay de kyon k mazeed perhai se iss ki bemari mein azafa ho sakta hai aur jahan tak ho sake isse khulasay (manuals) guaides, test papers aur usaataza k qalmi nushkay faraham kiye jayain..kyon k ye behtareen tonic hai
iss k elawa ird gird ka mahol mareez pe bohat asr andaaz hota hai agr mareez k mizaaj shareef ko thori tafreeh di jaye tou kya hi baat hai, T.V aur rock music ka ehtamam krna bohat hi zarori hai, temadaar ko chaiye k wo mareez k serhanay baith kay almiya aur ishqiya ashar ka vird jari rakhain...ho sake tou koshish kerain mareez ko aik do baar cinema ka chakr lagwa lain,,,,
tafreeh kissi open park mein honi chaiye mareez ko family park se door rakhain
iss ka faida result anay pe zahir ho ga
tab tak mareez nafsiyati tor pe b tayaar ho ga aur board, mumtahin hazraat ko bakhoobi slawatain suna sake ga .......
ab atay hain perhaiz ki taraf kyon k iss k bina treatment ka koi faida nahi.....
aur aik famous proverb b tou hai na
"perhaiz elaaj se behtar hai " ahoooo
iss bemari mein perhaiz tou bohat mushkil hai balkah namumkin hai, iss mouzi bemari se bachnay k liye zarori hai kah shuroo saal se hi parha jaye ya imtehaan se pehlay hi khoob tyari matbal tamam zarori bootiya, kartoos wagaira tyar kr liye jayain ,,ya examination honor ko thora side pe le ja kr thora git mit kr liya jaye ....ahooooo
ya phir khud ko imtehaan ki sarhadon se door rakha jaye.....
umeed hai aap sab talib-e-elmo ko meray mashwaron se afaqa ho ga,,,,,aram na anay ki sorat mein apne mualij se mashwara kerain.... ahooooo
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